What You Can Do Now To Ease Day To Day Meltdowns!!
You know, no one can blame you for feeling the way you do, the minny meltdown you have on occasion, wishing your name wasn't "muuuuuummmmmm" on those days when you can barely look after yourself and it all seems to too much, almost like your little darlings are sucking the life and soul out of you- as soon as your arse hits the chair they want something else!!
I know that feeling too well- 4 children under 8!! I still sit here on days wondering how the hell I have four children, but I am grateful, thankful that I am called mummy. It's just, well, so bloody hard sometime. The last two years have been spent in pure survival mode!!
Seriously, if only our little darlings came with a manual and off switch, life would be great, wouldn't it?
It's can be hard, the vision we have for us when we become excited about becoming parents, the well groomed, mild mannered, excellent role model that can juggle everything, turns up at the school gate looking impeccable, gets to meetings on time, everything organised and punctual with perfect children who grown into perfect adults- sadly when we become parents this illusion is often shattered against the pile of shit we have to face that no one actually tells us about.
I have never wanted to be one of those loud screechy mother that you hear screaming after their children in the supermarket!! Goodness Help Me!!
So what can you do to make life easier for you?? Trust me, I have been through all major upheavals on my journey in parenting, these are some of my pearls of wisdom that I learnt the hard way....
You Are Doing An Amazing Job!!
Jeani Howard is an intuitive healer and award winning therapist who specialises in Pre & Post Natal care and PTSD as well as childhood trauma & anxiety. Her desire is to help as many people as possible to feel better. Help her hit her 1 million!