We all have stress in some shape or form, it's part and parcel of life, some have it good, some have it bad, it's just how we deal with the stress we have that is key to our mental and physical health.
Stress can be brought on from any kind of changes, worries or demands that we face everyday. Stress simply starts with a rise in pressure on us, this pressure builds, so does the stress both internally and externally.
We all have inside of us what I like to call an “emotional box”, in this we chuck our emotional baggage, our stress, until soon if not emptied, begins to overflow and this is when the trouble can start if not dealt with and cleared properly.
That box needs emptying, when it is not we then develop the tale tale signs of high stress and into anxiety which will then lead to physical issues, depression and disease.
With this stress, we tend hang on a knifes edge, in a constant state of high alert to everything around us. Never shutting off from what's going on in our heads. This leaves us in a constant low level state of fight or flight, being triggered many times throughout the course of our day, even over mundane things that would probably never bother us before.
This fight of flight is brought on by the nervous system releasing huge levels of the stress hormones cortisol and adrenaline. This leaves our body in panic mode and can lead to serious health problems.
It can feel like you are going crazy, but this is all normal. Millions of people go though this everyday.
You are not alone.
Posted on 06/01/2015 by Dave Chawner (stand up comedian) from MIND website
New year, new start. Dave talks about what he plans to do in 2015 to get 'mental healthy'.
I was in a bar when I heard it. Two blokes having a drink a couple of days into the New Year.
"Any resolutions this year Steve?"
"The usual. I've signed up to a gym. This year I want to get mental healthy!"
I couldn't help but laugh at the phrase. That is exactly what I am doing too.
We think about health more at the start of the year than any other time. People talk about getting physically healthy, but hardly anyone talks about thinking healthily. Up until last year it was something I’d never considered either, but recently that's changed.
I’d always assumed people with mental illness knew they were ill. But when it happened to me, I didn't. I was trapped in the day-to-day. It was like trying to look at a massive picture when you’re only inches from it.
Unknowingly I sunk lower and lower into depression. It happened without me realising. Slowly I became numb to everything. The world became intimidating. I felt trapped with no way out.
Looking back, it’s really hard to find the words for what I felt. Something was wrong but I didn’t know what. That's the problem with mental illness, it is entirely subjective - you only ever see its effects and as I could never compare my mind with anyone else’s, how did I know I was mentally ill?
This made getting help daunting. People are generally reluctant to go to the doctors anyway and I am no exception. Each morning I’d go to call but convince myself I wasn’t that ill. I never felt ‘ill enough’. I didn't have any bruises I could point to or any cuts I could show off. I wasn't covered in bandages or have a cast anyone could sign. So, I was worried people wouldn't take me seriously.
It was this fear that stopped me getting help sooner. Fear I was a fraud, attention seeking or unable to cope like everyone else. I was waiting for something to happen so I could class myself as ‘ill’. If I found a lump on my body, I wouldn’t wait for it to be the size of a melon before I went to the GP. So, what was I waiting for?
In the end, when I did get help, it was a massive relief. I have anorexia which lead to my depression and for me getting a diagnosis made it so much easier. It means I now know I am not attention seeking.
If you are looking to get 'mental healthy' in 2015, and you haven't talked to anyone about how you're feeling, I recommend that as a first step. It doesn't have to be from your GP if that feels too scary, maybe you could first of all talk to you parents, your partner or a friend you trust?
If you're a little bit further on in your journey, or perhaps like many people you're on a waiting list for treatment and are looking for ways you can help yourself, here are some of my tips for 2015. Enjoy!
Jeani Howard is an intuitive healer and award winning therapist who specialises in Pre & Post Natal care and PTSD as well as childhood trauma & anxiety. Her desire is to help as many people as possible to feel better. Help her hit her 1 million!
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