Right from the start of conception till when we give birth, there are cords that connect us to our babies- the physical umbilical cord, and the energy cord, even when the umbilical is cut- the energy cord is still present, this is why we have such strong ties with our children and why they can have attachment issues- you know the uncontrollable crying when you leave the room!! These energy cords come from the tail of our spin into our stomach to our child. These cords should drop away as the child grows and becomes more independent.
Without realising it- we pass all of our emotions and everything that we are feeling into our children because of these cords as well as our vibrating energy.
So, now you know why your children as so demanding when you’re feeling rough- they are feeding off of you!
It is from birth that we begin to start building up our collection of information and experiences that will determine our belief structure, our internal wall, and our blueprint of who we are and who we are to become. Very often babies/small children who have had birth trauma before the ages of 2 can lock this into their energy and will go onto to show classic signs of anxiety, with problems in both their physical and psychological well-being; much often leading to depression and instability later in life, not adjusting into adulthood as best as they could.
All children are at their most susceptible and impressionable between the ages of 0-7. All children are born with the ability to see energy- when you see a baby looking you’re your head and laughing- this is because they can see your aura. This is where so much conditioning is imprinted into children.
If you are telling your child that you love them, but you are feeling angry, overwhelmed and hurting inside- this causes a conflict of interest in the child, you are saying nice words which are calm, but all of their senses are focused on the energy that they can see in and around you.
This is why many children are withdrawn and shut off from the world because at such a young age they have been so confused that they have decided that it is easier just to shut off. Children are a sponge for what is happening around them- they look to you for everything, if you are feeling like shit emotionally, they will pick up on this and reflect it back.
The tools that I implement within my 5 step programs have been proven to not only benefit the growth, functionality and emotional stability of your children, but also aid in the daily calmness and relationships between parents, their children and their siblings- a happy home and family unit.
Remember how we said about your vibration of energy- what you feel on the inside is what you pass out into the world around you? This is true for your children- do you ever see how stressed and naughty your children are when you’re uptight and stressed yourself? The tools that are implemented within Every Chance have been proven to not only benefit the growth, functionality and emotional stability of your children, but also aid in the daily calmness and relationships between parents, their children and their siblings- a happy home and family unit.
What about the emotional rollercoaster that children go through with their own emotions and hormones. They are thrust into this world with constant changes in their inner world and outer world. So many children also have the added stress of living with the following that all adds to their own anxiety and depression, to name but a few:-
Jeani Howard is an intuitive healer and award winning therapist who specialises in Pre & Post Natal care and PTSD as well as childhood trauma & anxiety. Her desire is to help as many people as possible to feel better. Help her hit her 1 million!